Affectionate, generous and kind hearted, albeit thoroughly pragmatic when need be.
Modesty, humility and compassion above all else.
Last but not leat, my ideal match should be comfortable in their own skin and not willing to submit to traditional notions of gender. Point in case, I'm not looking for a ttanswoman who is planning to undergo vaginoplasty as a means of conforming to a traditional definition of womanhood. In my view, gender identity is s state of being, not a genital derivative. One can be as womanly as it gets without mutilation. The trans prefix should be about transcending gender definitions, not transitioning between stereotyped forms of gender identity.