I am a geek, a sub-leaning switch, an occasional poet, and still very much in the making. I have baggage which I am working on shrinking down to travel size, and am making good progress if I do say so myself. I can be both an emotional and logical person, I tend to fuse the two rather often. No I don't always make sense, and I am okay with that.
When people ask me what I am looking for, I just kind of glaze over. I don't really know, I just know I need to look, and hopefully stumble across it and love the journey as I make it, like Neo without al the agents and killing and computer programs and... all right so very little like Neo but you catch my drift.
I enjoy deep discussions, but not arguments. I like the little gestures (speaking to relationships here) such as nick names, a surprise flower or iced cap, little notes. I don't need them but they certainly carry some weight with me. I am not in to being rushed, as I am not sure what exactly I am looking for I am exploring things slowly, I rushed a lot in my past and it has turned out less than stellar.
I am a pretty big gamer, and as such I play a fair amount of games, best just to ask me if I play something you like or what my current fixes are, it changes pretty frequently as I try to find a game to play with others, as I HATE playing alone.
I am a very touchy feely person, I enjoy contact to a VERY high degree. It can calm me down, excite me, rile me up, all depends in how you do it. I go from supreme confidence to absolute loss of confidence in the blink of an eye when it comes to my body, which is a step up from only ever feeling shit about it. I am beautiful, I just need to be reminded from time to time!
I don't feel like doing a "plus size" disclaimer, but what i will say is, while I enjoy humiliation and degradation, I DO NOT enjoy them about certain topics, one of which is my size.Other than that give me a shout!