The basics: I'm a femme, and, lest anyone be confused - I was not born in a female body. I'm not 24/7, have to do the balancing 'normal' and kinky routine, and don't really mind (too much, anyway) that I have to put my children first.
But for those who wonder, no, I'm not going to change. I'm never going to wake up and decide that I'm a top, or truly masculine, or anything approaching either. I'm comfortable in my femininity, limited though it may be by single parenting/working/living in the vanilla world.
While some use this site solely as a fantasy outlet, and that's fine, I'm one of those who is very much for real. I've had at least one serious relationship that began online, and though it ultimately didn't work out it was very much worth the attempt.
For those with inquiring minds, she didn't like the fact that I have to spend most of my life posing as a male. I'm not thrilled by it either - but for now it's my reality. I started HRT in April 2015, and hope to transition by Fall of 2016.
When possible I've been getting back to basics - going out to parties when I can, meeting old and new friends in the scene and generally having a good time. And that's my plan - circulate until it feels right to spend more time with one specific someone.
If I had to imagine that person, she'd be strong in heart and mind, firm in what she wants and unashamed of her desires. If that's you...well, let's talk!
On the other hand, if your pictures are exclusively of your genitalia, please move on to the next profile.