The basics: I'm a femme, and, lest anyone be confused - I was not born in a female body. I'm not 24/7, have to do the balancing 'normal' and kinky routine, and don't really mind (too much, anyway) that I have to put my children first.
But for those who wonder, no, I'm not going to change. I'm never going to wake up and decide that I'm a top, or masculine, or anything approaching either. I'm comfortable in my femininity, out and unashamed.
While some use this site solely as a fantasy outlet, and that's fine, I'm one of those who is very much for real. I've had at least one serious relationship that began online, and though it ultimately didn't work out it was very much worth the attempt.
My plan: circulate until it feels right to spend more time with one specific someone.
If I had to imagine that person, she'd be strong in heart and mind, firm in what she wants and unashamed of her desires. If that's you...well, let's talk!
On the other hand, if you're half my age or your pictures are exclusively of your genitalia, please move on to the next profile.